Dear Jacob


Yesterday Your mother and I went to your school to meet with your teacher and she told us you were doing great in school. That makes your Mom and I very proud Jacob. While I sat there talking to your teacher I couldn’t help but wonder where the time has gone. It feels just like yesterday that we brought you home from the hospital, and now you’re in grade one. With each day as you get older you get more responsibility and I’m impressed how well you handle them. I know at times it can be hard but that’s why you have friends, teachers and parents. We’re her to help yo when it get’s hard.

Watching you play hockey this year is amazing, you are getting so much better with your puck handling. I can’t wait to take you to the Ice Path to practice your skating. Already this year there have been some amazing memories during your hockey games. Moments I will treasure, and I hope you will too. I know that Hockey is something that can be hard for you at times, but it’s when yo keep trying and work at things that are hard that they become easier and you become a better person for going through the work.


Your continued interest in reading is great. When ever I see you sitting there with your head buried in a book, I can’t help but smile. I was so much older than you when I began to understand the wonderful worlds that could be found in a good. To see that you have learned that already makes me proud, I just hope that the Video games and TV shows don’t cause you to forget about the simple fun of reading.

I’ll will end this letter on a last note, you are a great big brother. I watch you with your sister and I can see how much you love her. I see how much you want to protect her. I know there are time’s when being  big brother can be tough, and there are times that you don’t want to play with your little sister. Just remember that she looks up to you. You are her big brother, you will always be her big brother. You will always be there for her and she will be there for you. It’s one of the special things about having a sibling. So on the days that she annoys you by wanting to play in your room with you when you just want to be alone. Remember that she wants to play with you because she looks up to you and loves you.

Always remember that I love you and will always be here for you no matter what.

Love Daddy

POD: Cudling up

From Pictures of the Day 2012

I captured today’s picture of the day this evening after swimming. For some reason when we got home Violet wanted to dress up in her princess dress. Jacob settled into the big chair watching Netflix on his 3DS. I guess she was interested in what he was watching, so she climbed onto the big chair to watch with her big brother. When I saw the two of them, I had capture the moment so I grabbed my phone and snapped a few shots. As a father it always makes me smile to see the kids playing together so nicely.

POD: Violet’s Duty Day

From Pictures of the Day 2012

This morning while getting Violet’s clothes together for the day Melissa saw this scene on her little toy kitchen. I couldn’t help but take a picture. All she told me in the morning was that they were eating pizza.  It wasn’t till this evening when I show the picture to Violet that she told me the rest of story of what’s going on. She said, ‘Mario is the bay and the other one is the dad. He’s having a duty day.’

Surprise Guest

Today when I got home from work I was surprised to see we had a couple of visitors. Our friend Suzanne and her new-born baby Nate. Well I guess not quite new-born, he was born two month ago but didn’t come home until this week.  Seeing the little guy when I walked through the door was a bit of a surprise, though I think what surprised me more was how much I wanted to hold the little guy.

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POD: Building with the Kids

From Pictures of the Day 2012

This evening with Melissa out seeing her doctor about her injury (Broken Tail Bone) the kids and I were left to fend for ourselves for dinner and evening entertainment. So after we ate we cleaned out the living room, complete with Jacob vacuuming the carpet, before the kids headed upstairs to play for a bit. Around 7 I went up to see how they were doing and we ended up sitting around the little table in Jacob’s room building a house with his Lego an hour before bed. Once it was time for bed, the kids tidied up their rooms and I tucked them in for the night. It was strange how both went right to sleep, no complaints at all from my little Diva as I tucked her into her big girl bed. Leaving me with a little quiet time before Melissa got home.